Tag: Self care

  • On Enduring Pain

    On Enduring Pain

    I had a rough day yesterday. It was one of those days where all I could do was get from my bed to my recliner, and then just sit. Even feeding Gordon his doggie breakfast was a chore; it took about an hour of sitting still and staring off into space to recover from that.…

  • Sometimes I lie

    Sometimes I lie

    Last week, I was having a conversation with the esteemed director of my residence here at Stonewall Gardens Assisted Living in my apartment, me seated, her standing in my open doorway.  Under normal circumstances, I think the world of Brittany – she is intelligent, experienced, professional yes, but perhaps more importantly she is kind, compassionate,…

  • Leave the trumpet-blowing to the musicians

    Leave the trumpet-blowing to the musicians

    I am actually a very shy person.  If you find that easy to believe, good; I’ve done what I’m supposed to do.  I may be outwardly shy and non-confrontational but sometimes, inside, I well up with megalomaniacal self-belief.  In my head I act out little vignettes where I not only get my point across but…

  • Family

    Family

    Back in my 30s I dated a guy named Jojo.  He was a Filipino (or Pinoy as they call themselves) from the Philippines who had come to America on a student visa for college, and when he graduated applied for a green card and stayed.  As a gay man (and a handsome one at that),…

  • Finding Sunlight in Darkness

    Finding Sunlight in Darkness

    This morning I read a press release about the “scrubbing” of LGBTQ+ resources and information from government websites by the new administration in Washington DC, and it felt like something I should write about.  I even thought of a way to write about it:  pointing out how the administration’s efforts are an attempt to “erase”…