• The In-between

    The In-between

    When I was 15, a teacher whose name I’m struggling to remember gave us an essay assignment:  in 500 words, describe your life at 35.  I had a very clear idea of where I would be and what I would be doing.  I had gotten my Master’s degree in English from UCLA, had returned to…

  • People are stupid

    People are stupid

    When I was growing up in Los Angeles in the 70s, every car had two things inside: the Fleetwood Mac album Rumours on 8-track tape, and a copy of the Thomas Guide. The Thomas Guide was a paperback, spiral-bound atlas featuring detailed street maps of the city; it was such a fixture of life in…

  • Schrödinger’s Cat

    Schrödinger’s Cat

    One of the most famous thought experiments in modern science and philosophy is Erwin Schrödinger’s cat, a paradox that captures the strange and counterintuitive nature of the microscopic world, brought to our modern consciousness by the Caltech physics nerds on the hit television sitcom The Big Bang Theory. Introduced in 1935, the idea was not…

  • Toward a new Poodlism

    Toward a new Poodlism

    Today, the calendar turns our attention to St. Patrick, who was not himself Irish but is credited with bringing Christianity to Ireland in the 5th century. “St. Patrick’s Day” comes around once a year and celebrates Irish culture, heritage, and traditions with wearing green (symbolizing Ireland, the “Emerald Isle”), symbols like shamrocks (which Saint Patrick…

  • Beware the Ides of March

    Beware the Ides of March

    Today is the the Ides of March, observed on March 15. Its origins are in the ancient Roman calendar, and it has become one of the most famous dates in the history of the world. Though originally a routine marker of time in the Roman civic and religious calendar, the day became immortalized because of…

  • A round of a’paws

    A round of a’paws

    Dogs are among the most socially connected animals we interact with on a daily basis. Their behavior reflects the deep bond they form with us, particularly when it comes to moments of separation. Yesterday, in the midst of a game of Rummikub during our “Games with Chuck” activity in which I finally beat Betsy at…

  • This is a raid!

    This is a raid!

    When I wore a younger man’s clothes, Martin, Paul, and I were the three musketeers; we had all been Franciscans and Catholic seminarians studying for the priesthood, but after college found ourselves an unlikely posse.  Martin was a high school principal – black and overweight, Paul was in federal law enforcement – quite muscular and…

  • The Killing of Georgie

    The Killing of Georgie

    Life and culture are full of milestones by which we measure progress, and nowhere is this more obvious than the LGBTQ+ community.  I was 3 years-old when the Stonewall Riots kicked off the modern push for gay rights and I have had a front row seat for many of the “firsts” in that movement.  I…

  • Are we justified?

    Are we justified?

    As we’ve established, this month’s name – March – comes from Martius, the first month of the earliest Roman calendar, named after Mars, the Roman god of war, and an ancestor of the Roman people through his sons Romulus and Remus. His month Martius was the beginning of the season for warfare; ironic, yes, given…

  • March

    March

    March is the only month that feels like it’s arguing with itself. One day it is inspired by Mars – bold, blustery, and ready for battle. The next day it remembers it’s technically almost spring and shows up with sunshine and birds chirping like they’re auditioning for a woodland musical. You wake up, see golden…