• What Dreams May Come

    What Dreams May Come

    “…and then a whole bunch of us were gathered in what looked like a laundry room and it was weird, but I could stand up on my own, without a walker or a wheelchair.  And my sister was standing next to me, but she wasn’t really my sister.  She kind of looked like that girl…

  • State of Play

    State of Play

    I think most of us for most of our lives have been mostly unaware of politics.  By that I do not mean we’ve been ignorant, and obviously it doesn’t apply to people who live and work in that world.  We all want lower grocery prices and charges at the gas pump, reasonable health care costs,…

  • The Test

    The Test

    80 years ago today, a man died.  He has long been a hero of mine, though I know him only from history books.  He was a disabled man who, at the age of 39, began experiencing symptoms of a paralytic illness that would confine him to a wheelchair for the rest of his life.  At…

  • Cotillion

    Cotillion

    As a young boy I showed little interest in the things boys generally show interest in.  But if there was one thing I was fascinated by, it was kitchens – the cupboards, the appliances, the counters.  While Chris, and Dave, and Brock were out riding skateboards, I was usually in my mom’s kitchen. I would…

  • Proclamation

    Proclamation

    “Coming out” is not a one-and-done deal.  Throughout our lives, LGBTQ+ people are faced with “the dilemma” – over and over – of when and how much to share about themselves. As a physically disabled man, I require assistance just to accomplish many of the things that make up my day.  I need help taking…

  • Bonhoeffer’s Theory of Stupidity

    Bonhoeffer’s Theory of Stupidity

    Dietrich Bonhoeffer’s Theory of Stupidity offers us a way to understand the “hold” MAGA has over so many people.  It is important to note at the outset that by “stupidity” he does not mean “dumb.”  Rather than a lack of intelligence, he was describing a psychological state where facts don’t matter, where contradictions aren’t recognized,…

  • A Movie Review

    A Movie Review

    I’m not in the habit of doing movie reviews, here or anywhere else.  Mainly because people like what they like, they have their own tastes which may or may not match mine, and de gustibus non disputandum est, a Latin maxim meaning “in matters of taste, there can be no disputes.” So my telling you that I…

  • Buyer’s Remorse

    Buyer’s Remorse

    I have been horrified to watch the wholesale attack on DEI (diversity, equity, and inclusion) that has engulfed the federal government since the new administration took office. It is about the most un-American impulse possible.  E pluribus unum, meaning “out of many, one” in Latin, is the motto of the United States, recalling the union…

  • Let’s talk about porn

    Let’s talk about porn

    It’s our third rainy day of the year here in the desert, and if the 17 years I’ve lived here are any indication, it will probably be our last.  Gordon is quite unhappy with it; not only is he frightened of the raindrops when they fall on him, but it is cold out (48 degrees)…

  • The PEPFAR Crisis

    The PEPFAR Crisis

    Nine days after the new President of the United States took office and unleashed an unelected billionaire to wreak havoc in American institutions and programs with little or no thought to the real-life consequences for millions of people both in this country and worldwide, I wrote about the impact this clown car of an administration…