Category: Living

  • On Enduring Pain

    On Enduring Pain

    I had a rough day yesterday. It was one of those days where all I could do was get from my bed to my recliner, and then just sit. Even feeding Gordon his doggie breakfast was a chore; it took about an hour of sitting still and staring off into space to recover from that.…

  • The fearsome Wolf of Gubbio

    The fearsome Wolf of Gubbio

    I have a complicated relationship with the holy man of Assisi, St. Francis.  I no longer profess to be a Catholic, but I was a member of the Catholic religious order Francis founded in the 13th century, the Franciscans, for five years, from the time I was 19 until I was 24.  Before that, I…

  • Who knew?

    Who knew?

    A little over a year ago, I was referred to a nephrologist.  If you don’t know what that is, you’re not alone – neither did I; when I first got the referral, I assumed a nephrologist was a historian that specialized in ancient Egypt, specifically on Nefertiti, queen of the 18th Dynasty of Ancient Egypt…

  • An unexpected surprise

    An unexpected surprise

    Thinking about that title, aren’t all surprises “unexpected?”  Hmm, well let’s not get bogged down in semantics.  As an adult, I know that if I’m to pass along a food or beverage recommendation, it should be about a restaurant with a delicious grown-up entree (like the Corn Chowder Fettuccine at Grand Central at La Plaza…

  • Pandiculation

    Pandiculation

    Every morning when he wakes up, Gordon goes through the same routine.  First, he has to find his way out from under the covers on my bed.  As a little guy, he doesn’t have a lot of insulation, so the first thing he does when he goes to sleep at night is burrow deep under…

  • Good

    Good

    You know the way it goes.  You project.  You anticipate.  You plan.  And then, at the risk of personifying an immaterial concept, fate has a hearty laugh in your face.  It’s the idea that nothing ever goes as you expected (or wanted) it to. The ancient Stoics were a clever bunch.  They realized fate’s capricious…

  • Attitudes toward AI

    Attitudes toward AI

    Everybody is talking about “AI” but few know what it is or its implications.  My introduction to it has been largely positive.  I have had “smart” devices in my apartment for over a year, “controlled” by Alexa from Amazon – though I have configured her to use a man’s voice, so you might say my…

  • Happy Birthday Gordon!

    Happy Birthday Gordon!

    Today is Gordon’s designated birthday – the one used for his official paperwork with the city of Palm Springs (dog license, vaccination record, etc.) and by his vet.  It is “designated” because it marks the day, three years ago, that the Friends of the Palm Springs Animal Shelter rescued him from being put down at…

  • A Sisyphean Reflection

    A Sisyphean Reflection

    This may seem counterintuitive, but I don’t like to stand out in a crowd.  I’d much rather just blend in, be one of the guys, and enjoy a kind of social anonymity.  I don’t want to be in charge of the thing, the expert on…, or the guy who knows the answer.  But life has…

  • I am not weird

    I am not weird

    For years, I thought I was weird. You see, I go to bed between 9 and 10 o’clock in the evening, wake up in the middle of the night (actually the early morning – between 1 and 2 am), I am wide awake till roughly 4 am, and then I go back to bed and…