• Sexy Saturday

    Sexy Saturday

    In the spate of executive orders signed by the new President of the United States this week, one stood out to me.  Well, two did.  I think it is asinine to say you’re going to remove violent criminals from our streets, and then grant pardons to over 1500 people, some of whom are violent criminals…

  • Finding Sunlight in Darkness

    Finding Sunlight in Darkness

    This morning I read a press release about the “scrubbing” of LGBTQ+ resources and information from government websites by the new administration in Washington DC, and it felt like something I should write about.  I even thought of a way to write about it:  pointing out how the administration’s efforts are an attempt to “erase”…

  • Hiking in the Verdugos

    Hiking in the Verdugos

    You might think I’m going to write about what happened in the United States of America yesterday, how the day was nothing more than an orgy of grievance, bold-faced lies, xenophobia, Nazi salutes, score-settling, and false bravado.  But I’m not. Because January 20th is a very significant day for me.  Two years ago, on January…

  • The Canadian Plan

    The Canadian Plan

    As we brace ourselves for four more years of racist white supremacists like Stephen Miller, a man who always looks like he just ate a baby, occupying senior un-elected positions in the White House advising the man we did elect in probably the greatest act of self-harm imaginable for our country in its history, our…

  • My technicolor brain

    My technicolor brain

    I have always had a fascination, bordering on an obsession, with the French poet Arthur Rimbaud. When we speak of a poet, a novelist, a songwriter, or even a philosopher, we look to their early days for clues, for the seeds that germinated and sprang forth into what he or she is known for.  One…

  • What do you do for fun?

    What do you do for fun?

    I want to tell you about this new hobby I’ve discovered.  It’s LIVE webcams.  First, a little background. One of our Stonewall Gardens’ residents, who is relatively new, found herself sitting at my table in the dining room recently, and struck up a friendly conversation.  As a veteran, with nine years under my belt here,…

  • Time Will Tell

    Time Will Tell

    Ever since I was old enough to think thoughts deeper than “I want a candy bar,” I have had this very unscientific, wholly subjective feeling (notion, inkling) that most things, on the whole, are just getting better. And nowhere is that more obvious than the area of medicine.  As early as 1592, parish officials in…

  • Don’t forget the pets

    Don’t forget the pets

    Good morning:  the devastating pictures coming out of Los Angeles make it hard to begin with that salutation, because for many Angelenos it is anything but a good morning.  As an Angeleno myself who went to school within sight of Altadena, I am heartbroken.  It’s one thing watching the aftermath of a disaster in some…

  • Triskaidekaphobia

    Triskaidekaphobia

    While I stopped “practicing” the Catholic faith of my youth decades before, I “de-converted” to use Seth Andrews’ phrase (whose book I devoured, and to whom I wrote) in March of 2019.  But de-converting is not as simple as just owning up to the fact that you don’t believe in god. I think most people…

  • Crine

    Crine

    Al Kroesch (pronounced “kresh”), his wife Faye, and their weiner dog Willie, lived across the street and six doors down from me when I was growing up in Glendale.  They were old-age retirees when I was a boy, and I trace my fastidiousness back to them.  I used to call it my “OCD” until I…