• Et tu, Brute?

    Et tu, Brute?

    You know, up until this last week, I was very proud of the governor of my state, Gavin Newsom.  He has long held a place of the highest honor and regard in the gay community for being the first politician, in the entire country, to use his considerable authority as the then-mayor of San Francisco…

  • Potato Meetings

    Potato Meetings

    I’d like to start today by talking about the potato.  It is most often associated with Ireland.  The Irish were first to adopt it as a staple of their diet in the 18th century, and by the mid-19th century, “reports describing the appearance of a mysterious disease on the potato crops in various parts of…

  • Better living through chemistry

    Better living through chemistry

    If you know me IRL (“in real life”), and if you have known me for a while, you know at least two things about me.  One is that I used to smoke – a lot.  After a major incident in 2013 that landed me in a pulmonary ICU unable to breath for 15 days, I…

  • Tacos

    Tacos

    Now I’m all about a good steak, and pairing it with a lobster tail for surf and turf is delicious.  If I’m feeling like pasta, it’s gotta be carbonara, and I’ll jump at anything with peanut sauce on a Thai menu.  I have made my affection for the French Dip sandwich known, as well as…

  • Broadcasting the Closet

    Broadcasting the Closet

    As a young boy, I loved the television show Bewitched, where an attractive 60s housewife named Samantha Stephens (played by Elizabeth Montgomery) is married to an east coast ad exec named Darrin Stephens (played first by Dick York and later by Dick Sargent).  Samantha is a witch; Darrin, is a mortal. They have a half witch/half…

  • Come Fly With Me

    Come Fly With Me

    I do not understand.  When two sides have opposing views, you can generally look at the views in question, even when one side’s views are opposite your own, and see the reasoning that led to the adoption of that view.  A good example would be the question of abortion; I think it should be legal,…

  • The Avolatte

    The Avolatte

    If you’re like me, and let’s face it, not many are, then you too love the newest coffee craze taking California by storm.  Californians love their coffee.  But not a piping hot mug o’ joe at Denny’s or your local diner, served with those little thimbles of creamer.  Folgers?  Maxwell House?  Yuban?  No, I’m talking…

  • Duck You

    Duck You

    It isn’t easy.  I resigned from my job at 41 – medical reasons and all that – which means for the last 17 years I literally had nothing I have to do.  Oh sure, there’s an appointment here and lunch with a friend there, but filling my days is a bit of a challenge.  For…

  • Pillow Talk

    Pillow Talk

    When I first saw Ray, he was sitting alone at the other end of the bar.  Ray is a “peeler;” he compulsively peels the label off his beer bottle between swigs.  A jet-black head of hair atop an olive complexion gave him a dark, swarthy, almost brooding look.  I could tell he was Latino –…

  • DOGE

    DOGE

    Note to self:  pinpoint just when in the past the combination of racism, sexism, homophobia, ableism, income inequality, disregard for the environment, unaffordable healthcare, and militant Christian hegemony coalesced in one glorious moment of American greatness to which the new administration in Washington DC wants to return in an effort to “make America great again,”…